Moms and dads are often expected to be selfless, consistently putting their kids’ needs ahead of their own. This dynamic creates a gifting protocol between generations that varies depending on whether we’re gifting up to our parents or grandparents, or down to our children or grandchildren. But should it? Shouldn’t moms and dads be encouraged to ask for what they truly want?
What Do Mom and Dad Want?
Moms and dads can be notoriously difficult to shop for. Maybe you have a parent who always says, “I don’t need or want anything,” which only makes the gift search even harder. Personally, my parents were always tight-lipped about what they enjoyed beyond the responsibilities of raising kids, working, or managing household chores. As I’ve gotten older and raised my own son, I’ve found myself falling into a similar routine. I’ll be the first to admit—it’s tough to make the switch from hearing what someone else (your kid) wants to telling someone (your kid) what you want.
Gifts are a tangible way to show appreciation, love, and gratitude. As we get older, we often give more elaborate or expensive gifts, but how well do we really know what mom or dad wants? Is there a way for parents to share the things they actually want, and why should they?
Get the List. Share the List.
Why turn to GQ or Vogue when your kids, friends, and family can go straight to the source? We’ve all seen those gift guide listicles, like “25 Great Gifts for Dads Who Fish” or “40 Great Home Spa Gifts for Mom.” While those lists are helpful, they’re no substitute for a Gift List.
An always-on, personal Gift List is a great alternative for parents to share exactly what they want from their kids, friends, and family. You know your interests, hobbies, and needs better than anyone else. So, why not make it easier for your loved ones to find the perfect gift by creating and sharing a curated Gift List?
Unlike a wish list, a Gift List is a shareable, shoppable, and updatable collection of items you would like to receive—from any store or brand. It’s a completely unique, personalized gift guide just for you.
Why Use a Gift List?
A personal Gift List is easily updated. Every time you find something you’d love to receive, just add it to the list. Then, when a holiday or special event (like Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, or your birthday) comes around, you don’t need to scramble for ideas. Your Gift List is always available and ready to share with your kids and family, ensuring they know exactly what you want—no more guesswork!
For younger children, it’s a great opportunity to collaborate with aunts and uncles or siblings to pick out a gift. For older or adult children, it makes the task of gift-giving much easier, taking away the stress of wondering what their parents would truly appreciate. Gift-giving should be a joyful and meaningful experience, not one filled with anxiety. A Gift List helps make this process fun and stress-free for everyone involved.
Should Mom and Dad Ask for What They Want?
Absolutely! Parents are naturally inclined to be selfless. It’s part of human nature to prioritize others’ needs over our own. But when it comes to receiving gifts, it’s not just okay—it’s encouraged! Moms and dads should feel empowered to ask for what they want and need. Your family and friends are eager to show their support and appreciation for you, and they’ll be grateful for the opportunity to give you something you truly want.
Create a Gift List
It’s time to make gift-giving easier, more personal, and more enjoyable. Start your Gift List today and let your loved ones know exactly what would bring you joy—whether it’s for a holiday, special occasion, or just because. Everyone benefits when the gift-giving process is transparent and thoughtful. And don’t forget, you deserve the gifts that show how much you’re appreciated!
